What is holding me back from writing without fear? I feel like I live without fear – I make big, international moves, do academic stuff with screaming kids in the background, drive a car in the D.R…all these things are terrifying, and I do them anyway. But there’s something about writing…
I qualify most of my sentences. I condition my arguments. I don’t use definitive language. My writing is wrought with insecurity.
Maybe I'm scared to stand behind a statement that could make people argue with me. I'm not really that into conflict. I generally talk animatedly about controversial issues when the person I’m speaking to agrees with me. If I sense an argument brewing, I back down making a general statement about how we can agree to disagree. Unfortunately for people like me, ALL academic papers start with “I argue that….blah blah blah”.
What is it about academia that triggers this palpable uncertainty in my ability to make a firm argument? I mean, no author has all the data and every author makes the best statement they can with what they have. What makes me feel like what I have is somehow not enough? If theirs is enough, then why isn’t mine?
A very wise professor once told me the key to liberation and owning your voice is to “run out of fucks”. Of course, in my insecure, planificatory manner, my response was, “so when would be the best time to run out? While I’m a grad student? After I get a job somewhere? Or after I’m tenured?” The response: “Yesterday”.
I think about how my race, gender, and socioeconomic background matter. I’ve gotten along because I don’t make waves, and I've been doing emotional acrobatics to make people comfortable for most of my adult life. But good research is provocative, challenging, definitive, and it makes people engage, push, and take sides. I’m feeling more ready lately. I might be running out of fucks. It’s a little scary…but I think I like it.